Showing posts with label respect. Show all posts
Showing posts with label respect. Show all posts

Thursday, July 31, 2014

Being Classy: Advice for Guys (a guest post)

Today's guest-post is from my good friend Noah. Below is a picture of Noah being classy during his graduation photo shoot. 



In today's culture something we are lacking is class. Many people do
not know how to handle themselves with dignity and classiness. Fear
not. I have compiled a list of classy traits you can adopt and bring
your social status to the next level. and have some fun too.


10. Know your style: if you don't care how you look, you should. Get
advice from a friend. Find out what you look good in, and stick with
it, but don't be afraid to experiment. DO NOT be obsessed with clothes
all the time. This is an irritation to most people. Find balance. I
found it helpful to pick a friend with similar taste and ask "would
THEY wear this?"



9. Hygiene (nailed that spelling the first time *self five* ): This I
shouldn't have to even say, but many people do not take care of there
general composure. D-E-O-D-E-R-A-N-T.
=P don't be a germaphobe thought. and be relaxed too. walking around
with a comb in your pocket 24/7 just makes you "that guy".



8. Manners: This will score you major class points with anyone. P's
and Q's will open doors, makes friends, and look good on your resume.



7. Be outgoing. It is very unclassy to sit in a corner, put on some
obnoxious music, and say nothing to anyone. There ARE times for that.
I know I have them. But don't make it a habit. This is the single
biggest key to making new friends and keeping old ones. They're just
as nervous or even more nervous than you are.



6. Two Words: Bow Tie. ALWAY classy. Bow Ties are COOL. get a REAL one
if you know how;  if you don't..........learn how. Man points here. ;)



5. Get a suit. Or a tux. or just a button up and tie. Looking classy
in classy gear is essential to your repertoire (extra tip: use big
words). Second hand works if you don't have money lying around. I sure
don't. Choose wisely, but dare to be different...but no camo suits
please D:



4. R-E-S-P-E-C-T: There was a SONG about this. Learn it. It's catchy.
Listening to people is always a good start. If you don't agree with
them, don't start a fistfight. Talk to them, or even just say nothing.
Just remember: they have a whole life you have never seen. You don't
know their circumstances or life situations. Don't be judgmental. but
do learn to draw the line at stupidity.



3. Know your boundaries: A person's business is theirs. Don't stick
your face in it. If someone tells you something in confidence. NEVER
TELL SOMEONE ELSE WITHOUT THEIR PERMISSION . Not cool man. Not cool.



2. Have fun being classy. It IS fun. Make it fun. and relax too. Don't
be stiff. That isn't fun



1. RESPECT YO LADY FRIENDS. SINGLE, MOST IMPORTANT POINT: (ladies,
respect your dude friend too). If you wouldn't say it to your sister
or mother, don't say it to someone else. Be confident. that's someones
WIFE someday. He will find you. and he will kill you :{



Bonus: beards are classy. Keep them that way.

Friday, April 18, 2014

Skirts: things I've learned about them


Yesterday I posted the reason why I wear skirts
Today I'm going to talk about things I've learned about and while wearing them.

One of the things I've learned is: if it is a windy day, do NOT wear a long full skirt. You will either have issues with it, or get blown away (I know this from experience). Another thing I've learned, observed and heard, is depending on the type of work, skirts can be a hindrance. That is pretty much is self-explanatory. 
 
Skirts can also be thought of as "cool". I have had a few people tell me that they are "awesome" and that they are "cool to be different." A current clothing trend is the maxi skirt. They are usually long, feminine, quite graceful, and in style. Because they are in style, skirt wearing is not completely old-fashioned.

 The most interesting thing I've learned while wearing skirts is respect that is garnered. Respect may seem like a thing of the past, but it is still relevant today. I have had several young men respect and treat me differently than other young ladies because of the skirts I've worn. (Once again I will say, I will not judge you if you wear pants). I had a young man once tell me that when ladies wear skirts, he finds it easier to focus on the lady he is talking to. I thought about what he said and found that it was very true. 
 
Now you may think I'm trying to convict people, but I'm not. I'm just honestly stating things I've learned. I must also add that I have not brought bible verses into these posts because quite often they are used out of context or they come across sounding hypocritical. If you have any questions, comments, small animals or gardening tips, feel free to leave a comment!